Why choose a couple's sex toy?
Incorporating a couple's sex toy, it is adding a playful, sensory and intimate to your intimate moments together. It is also:
- Communicating your desires : choosing together opens up dialogue
- Discovering new sensations : vibrations, textures, shapes
- Breaking out of the routine : varying pleasures, trying new positions
- Building trust : attentiveness, respect, intimacy
- Intensifying orgasm : simultaneous multi-zone stimulation
The couple's sex toy is not a performance accessory: it is a a tool for connection, play and shared pleasure.
The different types of couple's sex toys
There is a great variety of couple's sex toys, suited to different desires, practices and levels of experience. Here is an overview of the main categories to help guide you.
- Couple's vibrator
- Vibrating egg
- Cockring – Penile ring
- Pegging harness – Strap-on harness
- Strap-on dildo
- Double dong
- Second-skin briefs
Couple's vibrators: synchronised or alternating pleasure
The couple's vibrators are designed to stimulate both partners, either simultaneously or one after the other. They adapt to your desires in the moment and add a vibrant dimension to your intimate moments or foreplay.
U-shaped vibrators
The U-shaped vibrators (such as the Satisfyer Double Classic or the Love to Love Match up) are worn during penetration. One arm stimulates the clitoris, the other the G-spot, while the penetrating partner feels the vibrations.
Why choose them?
- Stimulation clitoral, vaginal and penile simultaneous
- Often remote-controlled
- Ideal for beginners
Vibrating wands for two
Some wands (such as the ManWan Edgy or the Satisfyer Endless Fun) stimulate clitoris, penis, nipples, perineum… All erogenous zones.
Why choose them?
- Versatile and powerful
- Perfect for sensual massages together
- Adapts to all bodies
Cockrings: prolonged pleasure and double stimulation
The cockring (or penile ring) helps to maintain an erection and, if it vibrates, offers a double stimulation. We have selected items from Love to Love, ROUGE, 1969 and Nalone for men.
Vibrating cockring
Combines erection support for men and clitoral stimulation (vibrating ear) for women. Some models also stimulate the perineum or the prostate.
Non-vibrating cockring
Gentle compression for prolong an erection and intensify orgasm.
Discover our selection of cockring.
Vibrating eggs and bullets: discretion and remote-controlled play
Small, discreet, often remote-controlled, they allow one partner to control pleasure of the other through different vibration modes.
Why choose them?
- Complete discretion (wearable under clothing)
- Play of control and surprise
- Perfect for outings, restaurants, evening strolls
Explore our collection ofvibrating eggs from Love to Love, Nalone and 1969.
Strap-on dildos and pegging: anal penetration and exploration between people with vulvas
The strap-on dildo (strap-on) allows you to explore penetration in all configurations. The pegging refers to the anal penetration of a person (often with a penis) to stimulate the prostate.
In the couples with vulvas, the strap-on dildo is primarily used for vaginal penetration, with role exploration and shared pleasure.
Models strapless (such as Strap On Me) offer double penetration without a harness.
Pegging: exploring anal penetration
Anal penetration with a strap-on dildo to stimulate the prostate (P-spot), producing deep and diffuse orgasms.
Why is it so appealing?
- Intense prostatic pleasure
- Exploring new roles
- Stimulation for the penetrating partner
Discover our selection of pegging harnesses and strap-ons.
The strap-on dildo for couples with vulvas
Primarily for women in vaginal penetration (stimulation vagina and G-spot).
Why embrace it?
- Exploring lesbian penetration
- Role play and sexual power
- Shared pleasure (clitoral + vaginal stimulation)
- Enhanced intimacy (strapless models)
Explore our range of strap-on dildos.
Double dongs: simultaneous penetration and positional play
Flexible dildo with double-ended for simultaneous penetration of both partners (primarily those with vulvas).
Why choose it?
- Vaginal, anal or mixed penetration
- Rhythm play and intense closeness
- Ideal for female couples
Explore our selection of double dongs.
Second-skin briefs: playing with roles and exploring identities
Realistic packers or genital prostheses in silicone to create the appearance of a penis or vagina in an intimate setting. Used by trans and non-binary people to live their sexuality aligned with their gender identity, or by queer couples to play with gender roles.
Why choose them?
- Identity alignment during sex
- Visual and tactile realism (medical-grade silicone)
- Role play and queer exploration
- Compatible with certain harnesses
- Internal stimulation for the wearer
How to choose the right couple's sex toy?
Which sex toy should a couple choose? Finding the right product can seem daunting given how vast the range and prices are. Here are a few criteria to guide you according to your desires, experience and practices.
Defining your desires and your limits
Take the time to talk it over together. Questions to ask yourselves:
- Simultaneous or alternating stimulation?
- Discreet play (vibrating egg) or immersive exploration (pegging, double dong)?
- Incorporation during sex or in foreplay?
- First time or seasoned experience?
Choosing according to your level of experience
Which sex toy should a beginner couple choose?
- Vibrating cockring : easy, double stimulation
- Remote-controlled vibrating egg : playful, discreet
- U-shaped couple's vibrator : designed for penetration
Discover our selection of couple's vibrators.
Which toys for experienced or curious couples?
- Harnesses and strap-on dildos : pegging, role reversal
- Double dong : simultaneous penetration
- Strapless : strapless
Choosing safe materials
Opt for:
- Medical-grade silicone : hypoallergenic, non-porous
- ABS : hard plastic (remote controls, casings)
- Metal or glass : for cockrings, plugs
Avoid: porous materials (jelly, PVC).
Checking waterproofing and charging
- Waterproof : perfect in the shower
- USB charging : affordable, powerful
- Battery life : check the usage time
Remote control or connected: playing at a distance
Some products have a physical remote control or smartphone app. Ideal for:
- Playing in public
- Letting your partner take control
- Surprising with variations in intensity
Which sex toy should a couple choose?
How to use a couple's sex toy with complete peace of mind?
A couple's sex toy when used well, it is a toy that brings wellbeing, comfort and reassurance. Here are our recommendations to enjoy it fully.
Always use a suitable lubricant
- Water-based lubricant : compatible with all sex toys
- Silicone-based lubricant : long-lasting, but not for silicone sex toys
For pegging or double dongs : thick lubricant.
Cleaning your sex toy before and after each use
Hygiene is essential to prevent infections and extend the life of your toys.
How to clean a couple's sex toy?
- Before first use : warm water + mild soap
- After each use : rinse + specialist cleaner
- Drying : open air or clean cloth
- Storage : fabric pouch
Respecting charging times and battery life
- Do not leave plugged in continuously
- Charge fully before first use
- Recharge every 3 months if unused
Communicating during use
Using a couple's sex toy is above all a shared experience in your relationship . Feel free to:
- Saying what you enjoy or what makes you uncomfortable
- Adjusting intensity, position, rhythm
- Taking breaks when needed
- Laughing, playing, experimenting without pressure
The sex toy is a tool: you are the ones who create the experience.
Couple sex toys: for every couple, every desire
At 1969, we believe that pleasure has no gender, orientation or norm. The couple's sex toys are aimed at all couples : heterosexual, homosexual, queer, trans, polyamorous…
What matters is choosing a product that feels right for you, that respects your bodies and your desires.
Beyond sex toys, there are other ways to spice up your intimacy. The intimate games (board games, card games, dice, challenges…) help break the routine, laugh together and discover new sides of your partner.
Discover our collection of intimate games to add a playful touch to your evenings. Also discover our collection of BDSM sex toy to explore the play of power in complete safety.
