Intimate lubricant
At 1969, we know that a quality intimate lubricant enriches your intimate moments by bringing comfort, pleasure and softness. Our lubricants are available in a variety of textures and flavors to satisfy every desire. Water-based or silicone, scented or natural — the choice is yours.
Whether you are looking for an intimate gel for greater comfort during intimacy, a long-lasting lubricant for your encounters, or a lubricating gel compatible with condoms and pleasure toys, you will find here expert guidance, informed advice, and the product perfectly suited to your intimacy.
Explore our three families of lubricants:
• Water-based lubricants: versatile, compatible with condoms, silicone pleasure toys, and everyday use
• Silicone-based lubricants: long-lasting effect, silky texture, ideal for extended sessions
• 2-in-1 lubricants: Massage and lubricant to vary the pleasures
Discreet delivery to your door or to a collection point. Explore our selection and enjoy lubricating gels that respect your mucous membranes, your health, and your intimate well-being.
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What is an intimate lubricant?
A intimate lubricant is a gel designed to facilitate lubrication during sexual intimacy, theuse of sex toys, or any intimate practice requiring glide and comfort. It reduces friction, protects the mucous membranes delicate (vagina, perineum), and enhances sensations for you and your partners.
Why use a lubricant?
• Relieving dryness : hormonal, post-menopause, post-partum, stress, medication. The vaginal dryness touch of many women at different moments in their lives. A intimate lubricating gel brings hydration and comfort immediate.
• Enhancing pleasure : even without dryness, a lubricant enriches the sensations, facilitates penetration, and prolongs intimate moments without discomfort.
• Protecting the mucous membranes : during intimacy with sex toys, condoms, or any prolonged practice, the lubricant reduces irritation and micro-abrasions.
Lubricant vs intimate moisturiser: the lubricant acts occasionally to facilitate intimacy or theinsertion of sex toys. The intimate moisturiser, on the other hand, treats dryness daily and restores the balance of mucous membranes on the duration.
The different types of intimate lubricants
Water-based lubricant
The water-based lubricant is the most versatile. Compatible condoms, sex toys (silicone, glass, steel, latex, and any other materials ). It is suitable for all types of practices. Its texture light, its composition more natural feel and easy rinsing make it the preferred choice for use daily.
Advantages:
• Compatible with all use : intimacy vaginal, use sex toys, massage
• Formula often more natural / organic / vegan / without paraben (check the list of ingredients)
• Does not stain, easy to clean
• Respects the balance of mucous membranes
• Ideal in case of vaginal dryness
Limitations:
• Dries more quickly than a silicone-based lubricant, sometimes requires reapplication
• Less suited to very long sessions or use in water
Who is it for?
Beginners, intimacy daily, women sensitive, use with condoms or sex toys silicone.
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Silicone-based lubricant
The silicone-based lubricant offers a silky glide and a duration ofeffect prolonged. It does not dry out, is water-resistant, and requires little reapplication. Ideal for intimacy long, aquatic play, or the use of sex toys in glass, metal, ABS.
Advantages:
• Ultra-smooth texture, effect long duration
• Water-resistant (shower, bath)
• Economical: a small amount is sufficient
• Does not get sticky, does not dry out
Limitations:
• Incompatible with sex toys in silicone (risk of deterioration)
• Requires more thorough cleansing
• Thicker texture, less natural to the touch
Who is it for?
Extended sessions, aquatic play, massage sensual, intimacy more intense.
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2-in-1 lubricant: Massage and lubricant
The 2-in-1 lubricant combines the functions of massage gel and of intimate lubricant. Perfect for extending foreplay and flowing naturally into more intimate moments. Available in scented or natural, these gels versatile add a sensory dimension to your intimate moments.
Advantages:
• Total versatility: massage sensual then lubrication
• Textures rich
• Flavours and aromas to stimulate the senses
• Economical: just one product for two uses
Limitations:
• Check compatibility with condoms and sex toys depending on the formula
• Certain versions scented may irritate very sensitive skin
Who is it for?
Couples looking to vary their pleasures, lovers of extended foreplay, users wishing to simplify their intimate routine.
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Water-based vs silicone lubricant: which to choose?
Are you hesitating between water-based lubricant and silicone-based lubricant ? Here is a direct comparison to help you decide based on your use and your priorities.
Criterion: session duration
• Short/medium session (under 30 min) → Water-based lubricant : comfort natural, easy reapplication if needed
• Long session (over 30 min) → Silicone-based lubricant : long-lasting glide, no reapplication needed
Criterion: type of practice
• Vaginal intercourse, massage, daily use → Water base : respects the mucous membranes, compatible with all uses
• Intercourse extended, aquatic play → Silicone base : water-resistant, effect long duration
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Criterion: use with sex toys
• Sex toys in silicone → Water base essential (silicone damages silicone)
• Sex toys in glass, metal, ABS → Silicone base or water, as you prefer
Criterion: condom compatibility
• Water base compatible with condoms latex and nitrile
• Avoid lubricants oil-based with latex (risk of breakage)
Criterion: skin sensitivity
• Sensitive skin, allergies, vaginal dryness → Water base, formula organic, enriched aloe vera or hyaluronic acid
• Normal skin, in search of texture silky → Silicone base
Criterion: ease of cleansing
• Water base : rinses off easily with water, does not stain
• Silicone base : requires soap or cleanser, may stain certain fabrics
Our advice: start with a water-based intimate lubricant to test your comfort and compatibility. If you are looking for more duration, move on to silicone or to a 2-in-1.
Choosing your lubricant according to your practice
For daily vaginal intimacy
Opt for a water-based lubricant, enriched aloe vera or hyaluronic acid. These formulas gentle formulas respect the vaginal pH, soothe dryness, and offer a lubrication natural with no residue.
Our recommendations: lubricating gels vegan, without paraben, medical device certified for sensitive skin.
For use with sex toys
Silicone sex toys → Water-based lubricant only to preserve the integrity of the material.
Glass, metal, ABS, ceramic sex toys → Total freedom between water-based (easy to rinse off) or silicone base (long-lasting glide duration).
Latex sex toys → Water base exclusively so as not to alter the latex.
For sensual massage
The 2-in-1 lubricant combines massage and lubrication : its texture rich, often enriched and available in scented, enhances foreplay before flowing naturally into intimacy.
Alternative: the silicone pure also offers long-lasting glide, ideal for extended caresses, but requires more thorough cleansing.
For intimacy in water
Only the silicone-based lubricant is water-resistant: it retains its effect slippery in the shower, bath or pool. The water-based dissolves quickly on contact with water and loses its effectiveness.
For sensitive skin or vaginal dryness
Choose a water-based formula enriched aloe vera, hyaluronic acid, or vegetable glycerin. Avoid parabens, fragrances synthetic and colourants. The mention medical device guarantees maximum safety for mucous membranes delicate.
Our tips: formulas organic, vegan, dermatologically tested, validated by opinion of women affected by dryness.
How to use an intimate lubricant?
Step 1: Choose the right product
Identify your need (daily intimacy, sex toys, massage, duration long) and select the base suited (water, silicone, 2-in-1).
Step 2: Apply the right amount
• Water-based lubricant : generous dose, easy reapplication if needed
• Silicone-based lubricant : a small amount is sufficient (concentrated texture)
• 2-in-1 lubricant : quantity adapted to use massage or lubrication
Step 3: Apply to the areas concerned
• Directly on the mucous membranes (vagina, perineum, glans)
• On the condom (outer surface)
• On the sex toy before insertion
• On the body for massage sensual
Step 4: Reapply if needed
If you feel that the lubrication diminishes, add more gel freely. The lubricant carries no risk of overdose.
Step 5: Cleanse after use
• Water base : rinsing with lukewarm water is sufficient
• Silicone base : cleanse with mild soap or intimate wash
• Clean your sex toys according to their material and the lubricant used
Good to know: certain lubricants leave a sticky sensation when drying (often those formulas glycerin-based). Opt for gels without glycerin if you are sensitive to this effect.
Lubricant and condoms: compatibility and precautions
All water-based lubricants and silicone-based are compatible latex condoms and nitrile. On the other hand, absolutely avoid oil-based lubricants (coconut oil, shea butter, vegetable oils): they weaken the latex and increase the risk of breakage.
Golden rule:
• Water or silicone lubricant + latex condom = ✅
• Oil lubricant + latex condom = ❌ (risk of breakage)
• Silicone lubricant + silicone sex toy = ❌ (risk of deterioration)
Tip: to maximise comfort, apply a small amount of lubricant inside the condom before unrolling it. This heightens the sensations for the wearer and reduces friction.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQ)
Yes, especially a water-based lubricant, without paraben. It soothes dryness on a daily basis without disrupting vaginal pH. However, be mindful of formulas containing glycerine or fragrance, which can sometimes be irritating with repeated use.
It may leave greasy marks on some fabrics. Opt for dark sheets or protect your bedding. water-based lubricant does not stain.
Yes, provided you choose a formula gentle, natural, without paraben or fragrance. Consult your gynaecologist if in doubt, especially towards the end of pregnancy.
The lubricant is used in the moment, to enhance intimate moments or the insertion of sex toys. An intimate moisturiser addresses dryness on a daily basis, independently of sexual activity.
Yes, without any issue. The lubricant does not interfere with the IUD and may even ease any discomfort following insertion.
Check the expiration date on the bottle. Once opened, a lubricant generally keeps for 6 to 12 months. Close the bottle well after use and store away from heat and moisture.
No, avoid mixing water-based and silicone-based : this can affect their effectiveness and create an texture unpleasant. Use only one type per session.
Symptoms: itching, burning, redness, persistent irritation after use. Rinse immediately with lukewarm water, discontinue use, and consult a doctor if symptoms persist. Afterwards, opt for lubricants hypoallergenic, dermatologically tested ones.
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