Why choose a couples' sex toy?
Incorporating a couples' sex toy, it's about adding a playful, sensory and intimate to your moments together. It's also:
- Sharing your desires : choosing together opens up dialogue
- Discovering new sensations : vibrations, textures, shapes
- Breaking out of routine : vary pleasures, try new positions
- Building trust : listening, respect, complicity
- Intensifying orgasm : simultaneous multi-zone stimulation
The couples' sex toy is not a performance accessory: it's a tool for connection, play and shared pleasure.
The different types of couples' sex toys
There is a wide variety of couples' sex toys, suited to different desires, practices and experience levels. Here is an overview of the main categories to help guide you.
- Couples' vibrator
- Vibrating egg
- Cockring - Penis ring
- Pegging harness - Strap-on harness
- Strap-on dildo
- Double dong
- Second-skin panty
Couples' vibrators: synchronized or alternating pleasure
The couples' vibrators are designed to stimulate both partners, either simultaneously or one after the other. They adapt to your mood and add a vibrant dimension to your intimate moments or foreplay.
U-shaped vibrators
The U-shaped vibrators (such as the Satisfyer Double Classic or the Love to Love Match up) are worn during penetration. One arm stimulates the clitoris, the other the G-spot, while the penetrating partner feels the vibrations.
Why choose them?
- Stimulation clitoral, vaginal and penile simultaneous
- Often remote-controlled
- Ideal for beginners
Vibrating wands for two
Some wands (such as the Manwan Edgy or the Satisfyer Endless Fun) stimulate clitoris, penis, nipples, perineum… All the erogenous zones.
Why choose them?
- Versatile and powerful
- Perfect for sensual massages together
- Adapts to all body types
Cockrings: prolonged pleasure and dual stimulation
The cockring (or penis ring) helps to maintain an erection and, if it vibrates, offers a dual stimulation. We have selected items from Love to Love, ROUGE, 1969 and Nalone for men.
Vibrating cockring
Combines erection maintenance for men and clitoral stimulation (vibrating ear) for women. Some models also stimulate the perineum or the prostate.
Non-vibrating cockring
Gentle compression for prolong an erection and intensify orgasm.
Discover our selection of cockring.
Vibrating eggs and bullets: discretion and remote-controlled play
Small, discreet, often remote-controlled, they allow one partner to control pleasure of the other through different vibration modes.
Why choose them?
- Complete discretion (wearable under clothing)
- Play of control and surprise
- Perfect for outings, dinners, walks
Explore our collection ofvibrating eggs from Love to Love, Nalone and 1969.
The strap-on and pegging: anal penetration and exploration between vulva-owners
The strap-on dildo (strap-on) allows you to explore penetration in all configurations. The pegging refers to anal penetration of one partner (often a penis-owner) to stimulate the prostate.
In vulva-owner couples, the strap-on dildo is mainly used for vaginal penetration, with role exploration and shared pleasure.
Models strap-less (such as Strap On Me) offer double penetration without a harness.
Pegging: exploring anal penetration
Anal penetration with strap-on dildo to stimulate the prostate (P-spot), producing deep, diffuse orgasms.
Why does it appeal?
- Intense prostate pleasure
- Exploring new roles
- Stimulation for the penetrating partner
Discover our selection of pegging harnesses and strap-ons.
The strap-on dildo for vulva-owner couples
Primarily for women in vaginal penetration (stimulation vagina and G-spot).
Why embrace it?
- Exploration of lesbian penetration
- Role play and sexual empowerment
- Shared pleasure (clitoral + vaginal stimulation)
- Enhanced intimacy (strap-less models)
Explore our range of strap-on dildos.
Double dongs: simultaneous penetration and position play
Flexible dildo with double-ended for simultaneous penetration of both partners (primarily vulva-owners).
Why choose it?
- Vaginal, anal or combined penetration
- Rhythm play and intense closeness
- Ideal for female couples
Explore our selection of double dongs.
Second-skin panties: playing with roles and exploring identities
Realistic packers or genital prosthetics in silicone to create the appearance of a penis or vagina in an intimate setting. Used by trans and non-binary people to live their sexuality in harmony with their gender identity, or by queer couples to play with gender roles.
Why choose them?
- Identity alignment during sex
- Visual and tactile realism (medical-grade silicone)
- Role play and queer exploration
- Compatible with certain harnesses
- Internal stimulation for the wearer
How to choose the right couples' sex toy?
Which sex toy to choose for a couple? Finding the right product can feel overwhelming given how vast the range and prices are. Here are a few criteria to guide you based on your desires, experience and practices.
Defining your desires and boundaries
Take the time to talk about it together. Questions to ask yourselves:
- Simultaneous or alternating stimulation?
- Discreet play (vibrating egg) or immersive exploration (pegging, double dong)?
- Integration during intimacy or during foreplay?
- First time or seasoned experience?
Choosing according to your experience level
Which sex toy to choose for a beginner couple?
- Vibrating cockring : easy, dual stimulation
- Remote-controlled vibrating egg : playful, discreet
- U-shaped couples' vibrator : designed for penetration
Discover our selection of couples' vibrators.
Which toys for experienced or curious couples?
- Harnesses and strap-on dildos : pegging, role reversal
- Double dong : simultaneous penetration
- Strap-less : strapless
Choosing safe materials
Opt for:
- Medical-grade silicone : hypoallergenic, non-porous
- ABS : hard plastic (remotes, casings)
- Metal or glass : for cockrings, plugs
To avoid: porous materials (jelly, PVC).
Checking waterproofing and charging
- Waterproof : practical in the shower
- USB charging : affordable, powerful
- Battery life : check the usage duration
Remote or connected: playing at a distance
Some products have a physical remote control or smartphone app. Ideal for:
- Playing in public
- Giving control to your partner
- Surprising with variations in intensity
Which sex toy to choose for a couple?
How to use a couples' sex toy with complete peace of mind?
A couples' sex toy when used well, it's a toy that brings well-being, comfort and security. Here are our recommendations for making the most of it.
Always use an appropriate lubricant
- Water-based lubricant : compatible with all sex toys
- Silicone-based lubricant : long-lasting, but not for silicone sex toys
For pegging or double dongs : thick lubricant.
Clean your sex toy before and after each use
Hygiene is essential to prevent infections and extend the life of your toys.
How to clean a couples' sex toy?
- Before first use : lukewarm water + mild soap
- After each use : rinse + specialist cleaner
- Drying : open air or clean cloth
- Storage : fabric pouch
Respecting charging times and battery life
- Do not leave plugged in continuously
- Charge fully before first use
- Recharge every 3 months if unused
Communicating during use
Using a couples' sex toy is above all a shared experience in your relationship . Feel free to:
- Say what you enjoy and what doesn't feel right
- Adjusting intensity, position, rhythm
- Taking breaks when needed
- Laugh, play, experiment without pressure
The sex toy is a tool: you are the ones who create the experience.
Couples' sex toys: for every couple, every desire
At 1969, we believe that pleasure has no gender, orientation or norm. The couples' sex toys are aimed at all couples : straight, gay, queer, trans, polyamorous…
What matters is choosing a product that reflects who you are, that respects your bodies and your desires.
Beyond sex toys, there are other ways to spice up your intimacy. The playful games (board games, card games, dice, dares…) help break the routine, laugh together and discover new facets of your partner.
Discover our collection of playful games to add a playful touch to your evenings. Also discover our collection of BDSM sex toy to explore power play in complete safety.
