Connected stroking masturbator - Solace

Lovense Solace is an automatic stroking masturbator designed to leave your hands completely free. Attached to its desk mount, it takes care of the stroking motion, with speed and stroke length you can adjust precisely. You can also control it from your smartphone or hand control over to a partner. It is designed for men and people with a penis who want to discover lifelike mechanical stimulation, immerse themselves in interactive content or explore connected pleasure together.

A back-and-forth motion that takes the place of your hand

The idea behind Solace is simple. Inside its housing, a mechanism moves the sleeve back and forth along the penis. It is neither vibration nor contraction, but a genuine stroking motion, steady and firm.

Two settings shape the sensation. The first is speed: up to 280 strokes per minute, taking you from a slow, enveloping rhythm to a decidedly intense pace.

The second is stroke length: the distance the sleeve travels between its furthest forward and furthest back positions on each cycle. In other words, it is the range of motion, like the length of an up-and-down hand movement. On Solace, stroke length is adjustable up to 7 cm.

A short stroke of a few centimetres keeps the movement near the tip of the penis, concentrating stimulation on the head and frenulum, the most sensitive areas. A longer stroke moves the sleeve over more of the penis for a fuller, deeper caress. By combining speed and stroke length, you can alternate between quick, short, teasing movements and slower, longer, more enveloping ones.

Two sleeves, two ways to feel

The sleeve is central to the experience, and Solace lets you change it in seconds thanks to its hinged sleeve holder.

The neutral sleeve supplied with the device is lined with small raised details and ridges that heighten the sensation of friction with every stroke. Its soft, skin-like material stretches to accommodate most sizes.

Like any TPE sleeve, it wears over time and with repeated washing. When it loses its elasticity, becomes misshapen or develops a tear, it is time to replace it. A replacement neutral sleeve is available in our shop, so you can rediscover those first-use sensations without replacing the device.

For a different experience, there is also a vaginal sleeve. Its realistic-looking opening, soft material and narrower inner channel offer a more enveloping sensation, closer to intercourse. Alternating between the two sleeves as the mood takes you gives the same back-and-forth movement an entirely different feel. Having a second sleeve also means you can use one while the other dries.

Getting started and setting up

Solace attaches to the edge of a desk, table or shelf with its screw clamp. The joint rotates through 180° to position the device to suit you: seated in front of a screen, lying down, lounging on a sofa or standing at a table. This mount is what makes the experience truly hands-free. Your hands remain free for a controller, a mouse, your phone or your partner’s body.

Before you begin, apply a generous amount of water-based lubricant inside the sleeve and onto the penis. Reapply throughout the session, as this type of lubricant gradually dries. Adequate lubrication is essential: it helps the sleeve glide, protects the skin and prevents strain on the mechanism.

Without the app, the buttons on top of the device let you switch Solace on, cycle through programmes and adjust the intensity. It is the simplest way to begin. Start at a low speed with a short stroke while you find the right angle, then gradually increase both.

Lovense Remote: make every session your own

With the Lovense Remote app, Solace becomes a fully customisable pleasure device. It connects via Bluetooth: simply switch on the device, open the app and add the toy using the ‘+’ button.

Live control. Adjust the speed and stroke length with a fingertip, in real time, without touching the device. Speed up, slow down, pause, lengthen or shorten the stroke: each session unfolds according to your desires and sensations.

The programmes. You can use preset rhythms or create as many of your own as you like, combining bursts of speed, pauses, longer strokes and shorter ones. Up to 10 personal programmes can be saved in programming mode, accessible directly through Solace’s buttons without a phone. The community’s shared library also lets you download new programmes and share your own, including anonymously.

Music and sound. Solace can match its rhythm to music on your phone or a linked Spotify account, for a session that follows the tempo of your playlist. Sound mode makes it respond to the volume around you, with adjustable sensitivity.

Interactive content. Solace synchronises with compatible interactive videos, adult games and live streams through the VibeMate app. Its movement then follows the action on screen, creating an immersive experience that manual masturbation cannot offer.

Pleasure shared, near or far

Solace is not just for solo pleasure. Your partner can take control from their own phone, whether you are in the same room or thousands of miles apart. They add you in the app and start a live control session. They can then control the speed and stroke length while you connect by video or voice call, messages or photos, in a private space.

If your partner also has a Lovense toy, the synchronisation feature links both devices so they can be controlled together from a single panel. Either of you can hand control over to the other.

For the more curious, the app also offers groups of up to 100 people and group synchronisation. It also offers a D&S mode, in which several dominant partners take turns controlling a submissive person’s toy. These power dynamics depend on clear consent, discussed before the session, and an agreed signal to slow down or stop altogether.

Battery life, care and storage

With up to 12 hours 30 minutes of battery life from a charge of around 1 hour 40 minutes, Solace lasts through many sessions before needing to be plugged in. Switch it off before charging, and do not use it while it charges. The indicator light stays on during charging and goes out when charging is complete. You can also see the battery level in the app.

Care is designed to be quick. The sleeve holder opens so you can remove the sleeve. Wash it in lukewarm water with mild soap or a sex toy cleaner. Only the sleeve should be washed: simply wipe the housing with a cloth. Let the sleeve dry completely before replacing it or storing it away from heat, cold and dust. A well-cared-for sleeve lasts longer, while regular replacement helps maintain hygiene and the best possible sensations.

The connected masturbator for hands-free pleasure

Lovense Solace brings together what most manual masturbators lack: an automatic motion with adjustable speed and stroke length, a mount that leaves your hands free, long battery life and interchangeable sleeves that let you explore different sensations. Its app also opens the door to shared play, at a distance or with interactive content. It is a thoughtful, lasting choice for anyone looking to explore masculine pleasure differently, taking the time to tailor each session to their tastes.

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