Vibrating connected strapless strap-on - Lapis

The Lovense Lapis is a vibrating, connected strapless strap-on designed so both partners can feel penetration at the same time. Its bulb sits inside the wearer, while the dildo stimulates the receiving partner. It offers a shared experience for lesbian, bisexual, queer and heterosexual couples who want to switch roles.

A double-ended strap-on without straps

The Lapis is worn without a harness: its 8.7 cm insertable bulb rests against the wearer’s G-spot, held in place by the pelvic floor muscles. At the base, textured ridges massage the clitoris and vulva with every movement of the hips. On the other side, a 13.8 cm dildo with a slender tip and ribbed shaft offers smooth penetration. Its flexible neck lets you adjust the angle for each partner’s comfort.

How do its three motors work?

The Lapis has three motors that can be adjusted separately: one in the bulb, one in the clitoral base and one in the dildo. This lets each partner choose an intensity that suits them, rather than sharing a single setting. Vibrations travel along the ribbed shaft, accompanying every movement. At just 315 g, it remains light to wear, even during a longer session.

The Lovense Remote app, at the heart of the experience

The Lapis can be operated with a button, but the Lovense Remote app (iOS and Android) reveals its full potential. Over Bluetooth, a slider lets you adjust each motor, while looping or constant vibrations leave your hands free. Choose a preset rhythm, create your own programmes or explore the community library. The Lapis can also respond to your music, ambient sound or your voice.

From a distance, your partner can take live control of the vibrations, wherever they are, while you chat by message, voice or video call. Synchronisation lets you control two Lovense toys together, while groups open up the possibility of shared play.

Why choose the Lapis?

Where a conventional strap-on stimulates only one person, the Lapis lets both partners feel its vibrations through dual stimulation, with each motor adjustable separately. With no straps, it offers freedom of movement and a sense of direct contact, as though it were part of the body. It suits couples who want to share the sensation of penetration, those who enjoy pegging and want to switch roles, and anyone exploring their gender identity.

How to use

Start by applying a water-based lubricant to the bulb, then insert it, gently contracting your pelvic floor muscles to hold it in place. Adjust the angle of the flexible neck, lubricate the dildo and slowly penetrate your partner, starting with gentle vibrations. For anal penetration, take time to relax and communicate, and never move the toy from the anus to the vagina without cleaning it first.

Care instructions

IPX7 waterproof, the Lapis can be cleaned with warm water and mild soap or a sex toy cleaner before and after each use. It recharges via a magnetic USB cable in 1 hour 45 minutes, providing up to 2 hours 36 minutes of use. Store it clean and dry in its pouch.

For more ways to explore, discover our selection of pegging harnesses and couples’ vibrators for those seeking a shared, intimate experience of penetration.