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The idea of introducing sex toys into your relationship has been turning over in your mind for weeks, perhaps even months. You see it as an opportunity to invigorate your intimacy, break the routine, explore new experiences… There is just one shadow over all of this: you do not dare bring it up with your partner. Not because they are closed-minded, but because you are afraid of stirring up insecurities, of this initiative being misinterpreted. This is quite common. And indeed, if you wish to use a sex toy as a couple, there is a right (and a wrong) way to bring the subject up.  Here, then, is a guide to help you nurture this idea and bring it up with your partner in the best possible way.  Sex toys as a couple: what reservations might your partner have?  What if your partner felt in competition with the sex toy?  This is one of the objections that comes up regularly when one partner wishes to introduce sex toys into the relationship: "I'm not enough for you", "you need more", "you're not fulfilled with me and you didn't dare tell me"… Your partner interprets your request as an implicit message: they think you are not satisfied in your intimate life. As we mentioned earlier, this is a common scenario: your other half fears that the object will give you sensations that they cannot.  It is therefore essential to choose the right moment to bring up sex toys as a couple, and to put forward the right arguments (we explain a little further on how to do so). Even if it seems obvious to you, it is absolutely essential to put into words the idea of shared pleasure. The sex toy is merely a tool to guide you both towards new sensations. You can enjoy yourselves together, discover things as a pair, without competing with the toy. The sex toy replaces no one — it is purely "a playful and utterly erotic instrument" as psychoanalyst and sexologist Valentina Bracciale likes to remind us. Reigniting performance anxiety Performance anxiety is very common within relationships. While it often manifests more acutely in men, women are by no means spared.  In a few words, performance anxiety is the fear of failure transposed onto sexuality. You are afraid of not being enough, of not bringing your partner to pleasure, of not being quite right… Sexual standards are rooted in pornography: we are talking not only about performance but also about very precise physical codes associated with beauty and desirability. You may not even realise it, but this content, consumed without a critical eye, can feed your sexual anxiety.  Try to free yourself from them and return to your own reality, reinventing the codes of an intimacy that truly fulfils you both, far from the pressure of orgasm at all costs. Introducing a sex toy into your relationship is precisely an opportunity to rethink your sexuality, an invitation to do things differently. Besides, you are not obliged to start with a penetrative model. Wand sex toys (massagers) are perfect for exploring your partner's erogenous zones, gently and at your own pace. When you are both ready, you can turn towards other models to go even further! Sex toys in a relationship: what if it is simply a fear of the unknown?  Sometimes, the reluctance has nothing to do with performance or jealousy. It simply comes down to… the unknown. It is only human. As soon as something steps outside the familiar frame, the mind conjures a thousand scenarios: What if I don't know how to use it? What if it feels strange? What if I do something wrong? What if we're disappointed? Sex toys still carry a somewhat mysterious image, almost intimidating. One imagines them technical, complicated, reserved for the initiated. In reality, they are above all designed to be intuitive and playful. What matters, when broaching the subject with your partner, is precisely to defuse this pressure. This is not a goal to be achieved, still less a performance to pull off. No one expects anything. There is no result to be obtained. You can simply present the idea as a shared curiosity. A way of saying: "I don't know this world very well either, but I would love for us to discover it together." This approach changes everything. It transforms the object into shared territory for exploration, rather than an accessory laden with expectations. Searching for your first sex toy can in itself become a complete experience. Browsing through the different categories, comparing models, discussing what intrigues or attracts you. All of this is already part of the game. And if you would like some reassurance, there are now many educational resources available: user reviews, detailed product descriptions, the specialist blogs, the podcasts on sexuality, FAQs that address the most frequently asked questions. There is no obligation to know everything immediately. Discovery is part of the pleasure. The keys to a successful conversation about introducing sex toys  Choosing the right moment  The moment you choose to broach the subject matters a great deal. A conversation about intimacy requires a degree of emotional availability. If one of you is tired, stressed or preoccupied, there is every chance the message will not land as you had hoped. The ideal is to choose a calm moment, when you are both relaxed. A quiet evening at home, a moment of conversation after dinner, a walk where the exchange flows naturally. Some situations, on the other hand, are less favourable: just after making love, just after an argument, in a moment of vulnerability or tension, in a deeply intense phase of seduction. Why? Because the conversation could be misinterpreted. After making love, your partner might think something was unsatisfying. After an argument, the conversation could turn defensive. The best approach remains a neutral moment, when you simply feel like having a conversation. The idea is not to make it a grand, solemn speech, but to open a natural conversation. An idea slipped into the exchange, a shared curiosity, a reflection on sexuality. Like so many subjects within a relationship, it is often simply a question of timing. Exploring the shared benefits of sex toys as a couple  When you introduce the idea of a sex toy as a couple, it is essential to make clear that this is not a personal project. This is not something you want for yourself. It is something you would like to explore together. Simply explain what draws you to this idea. Perhaps the desire to discover new sensations, to bring a little spark to your intimacy, to step gently outside your routine. Perhaps also curiosity about a world you have yet to fully explore. Your partner knows you. They know how you work. If you explain your approach with sincerity, it will be much easier for your other half to understand your intention. All the more so given that sex toys are now widely mainstream. A study conducted by IFOP indicates, for example, that 69% of French people who have already used a sex toy together feel that it had a positive impact on their sexual pleasure. This figure simply serves as a reminder: this is not a marginal or selfish pursuit. For many couples, it is simply a new way of nurturing their intimacy. Respecting your partner's pace and concerns  A successful conversation is never a monologue. When you broach this subject, it is essential to give your partner space to express themselves. Their questions, their doubts, their reactions are all part of the process. Perhaps the conversation will unfold exactly as you imagined, or perhaps it will take an unexpected turn. Your partner might be curious, enthusiastic, surprised, or on the contrary a little hesitant at first. All of this is perfectly normal. What matters is listening without trying to convince at all costs. The goal is not to win a debate but to open a dialogue. It is also possible that your partner may not know how to respond in the moment. Some ideas simply need time to find their way. Sometimes the conversation stops there… and returns a few days or weeks later. And this is often how discussions around intimacy evolve within a relationship. In any case, avoid putting on any pressure. Do not set deadlines, do not keep bringing the subject back up. Simply let the idea exist. Your partner might very well come back to you later with curiosity. Take it step by step, together  If your partner is open to the idea, there is no need to rush. One of the worst approaches would be to arrive at the conversation with a sex toy already purchased, placed on the table as a fait accompli. You could for example browse a specialist site together, discover the different categories, discuss what intrigues or attracts you. Some models might raise a smile, others will spark genuine curiosity. And that is perfectly fine. It is also possible that your partner would prefer to start gently. For example: try a sex toy on yourself first, then share how it felt with your partner to help them picture the experience, trying a simple accessory such as a vibrating cockring (penis ring), easy to use, What matters most is respecting your shared pace. Sometimes couples even begin with softer products: a sensory lubricant, a massage oil, a body paint… These are not strictly speaking sex toys, but these sexual cosmetics already offer a gentle way to step outside the everyday. Using a sex toy as a couple: the key to shared pleasure  Deepening the bond within the relationship  Discovering a sex toy together can become a truly shared experience. You are discovering new territory, hand in hand. You learn to communicate differently, to express what you enjoy, what intrigues you, what makes you laugh as well. Because yes, exploration can be fun, awkward at times, surprising more often than not. And that is precisely what creates shared memories. The sex toy then becomes a kind of shared little secret. Your codes, your rules, your own way of playing with intimacy. Some couples' sex toys have indeed been designed with this spirit of togetherness in mind. For example, remote-controlled objects such as vibrating eggs which allow one partner to control the other's vibrations, sometimes in the most unexpected of situations. This dynamic rests on trust. You are quite literally letting the other person take control of your pleasure. And this trust, when experienced within a safe and complicit space, profoundly deepens the bond between partners. Your intimacy becomes a space for exploration that belongs to you alone. Exploring new sensations through couples' sex toys Sex toys are also your gateway to new sensations.  The human body is remarkably sensitive. Yet, in the rhythm of daily life, you may tend to repeat the same gestures, the same rhythms, the same positions. Sex toys simply offer a way to break free from these patterns. At first, you can keep things very gentle: exploring certain erogenous zones, trying different intensities, playing with rhythms. Then, with time and trust, some couples choose to go a little further. Certain accessories allow, for example, both partners to be stimulated at the same time, to explore new areas of pleasure or to discover entirely new sensations. For many couples who take the plunge, the goal is not to radically transform their sex life. It is more about breaking the routine. Sex toys bring a playful dimension, almost exploratory, to moments of intimacy. As medical journalist Rica Étienne highlights, couples who successfully integrate these objects into their relationship generally do so through a deep quality of mutual listening. What matters is not the object itself, but the way in which partners communicate around pleasure. And sometimes, this exploration opens the door to new desires: discovering simultaneous sensations, exploring other areas of the body, or simply prolonging moments of pleasure. In some cases, couples' vibrators allow, for example, different stimulations to be combined, so that both partners can enjoy the experience at the same time. Once again, there is no obligation to go in this direction. Every couple writes their own story. At heart, introducing a sex toy into your relationship is not a revolution. It is rather an invitation to speak more freely about your desires, to be curious about one another, to keep on exploring even after years together. And perhaps the real secret lies not in the object itself, but in the dialogue it opens between you.   

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"Mon amour il faudrait que nos corps se souviennent / De toutes les nuits que nous avons passées"Louis Aragon, Il n'y a pas d'amour heureux (sung by Ferré) Valentine's Day approaches with its procession of red roses, heart-shaped chocolates and predictable candlelit dinners — but what if this year you chose another path, one that leads towards true intimacy, the kind that reinvents itself, whispers itself, discovers itself in the warmth of the sheets and the quickened breath of shared nights? Giving a sex toy on Valentine's Day is not simply adding an object to your collection — it is opening a door, the door of curiosity, of play, of renewed intimacy, it is saying to the other: I want us to explore ourselves differently, I want our desire to stay alive, to transform, to surprise. "In 1969, Serge Gainsbourg murmured words to Jane Birkin that caused scandal and reverie in equal measure — sexual revolution and all, people finally dared to say that pleasure was not shameful, that it could be shared, invented, celebrated. Today, we are the heirs of that freedom: the one that refuses to let desire fall asleep beneath the weight of routine and convention." Whether you have been together for six months or fifteen years, whether you form a heterosexual, queer, trans, polyamorous couple or simply one that defies categories, a sex toy can become the ritual that makes the heart beat differently — a silent language, a promise kept: never to take shared pleasure for granted. At 1969, we believe that love thrives on attention, on presence, and sometimes on a gentle technological nudge to reawaken sensation. Here is why and how a sex toy can transform your Valentine's Day into an intimate and unforgettable celebration. Why give a sex toy on Valentine's Day? Because love reinvents itself The early days are electric: every caress is a discovery, every kiss uncharted territory — then time passes and what was fire becomes tenderness, sometimes routine. This is not a fatality; it is an invitation — to reinvent your intimate rituals the way you change a record on a turntable, to rediscover the thrill of the first groove. A sex toy is an opportunity to venture off the beaten path, to introduce a new game, an unfamiliar sensation, a different way of touching. It is not about replacing what already exists — it is about enriching it, saying: our desire deserves our care, our nourishment, our attention, like a rare plant that asks to be tended. Valentine's Day then becomes the perfect pretext to place this object between the two of you, like a gentle proposition: what if we tried, what if we let ourselves be surprised by what our bodies can still discover together? Because it is an intimate conversation There are desires one keeps to oneself, curiosities one dare not voice, fantasies that remain in the shadows out of modesty, fear of judgement, or simply a lack of words. Anaïs Nin wrote in her journal: "We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension, and not in another; unevenly." (The Diary of Anaïs Nin). Desire, too, grows unevenly, unpredictably, sometimes silently. Giving a sex toy is opening a dialogue without having to say everything — it is proposing a neutral space where desires can be expressed without pressure. The sex toy becomes a mediator: it speaks for you, suggests for you, explores for you, and often it is in discovering it together that you begin to talk, to say what you enjoy, what intrigues you, what you would like to try. Intimacy is woven in these exchanges — murmured in the privacy of a bedroom or slipped between two nervous laughs, like a confidence shared in the half-light at the end of an evening. Because shared pleasure strengthens the bond Science confirms it: sharing sexual experiences releases oxytocin, the hormone nicknamed "the bonding hormone" — but beyond neurotransmitters, there is something simpler, more visceral. Coming together is creating a shared memory, an imprint that remains etched in the body as much as in the mind. A couples' sex toy is a pleasure that flows like an electric current, a vibration that passes through both bodies, a rhythm discovered together. It is the experience of being in sync, of looking into each other's eyes as pleasure rises, of laughing when it doesn't quite work at first, of trying again until it becomes second nature — like a choreography learned together, without a written score. These moments become etched in sensory memory — they become your secret rituals, your intimate codes, your warm recollections, and this is precisely what love needs in order to last: unique moments, repeated, renewed, always subtly different. Because Valentine's Day can be something other than a cliché Roses, chocolates, gift vouchers — year after year, the same script writes itself. But what if this time you wrote your own, with your own words, your own gestures, your own definition of what it means to celebrate love? Valentine's Day, in its 1969 version, is not the celebration of the ideal couple according to women's magazines or Hollywood films — it is the celebration of your couple, of what makes you unique, of what makes you truly vibrate. It is the legacy of May '68 whispering "pleasure without restraint", it is the freedom to refuse injunctions, norms, and pre-packaged expectations. Giving a sex toy is saying: our love doesn't fit into boxes, our intimacy deserves more than a standardised dinner, our desire is worth the time, the attention, the imagination we invest in it. It is choosing authenticity over conformism, the thrill over routine, exploration over mechanical repetition. Our Valentine's Day selection: 4 worlds of shared pleasure Rather than an exhaustive list of products resembling an IKEA catalogue of eroticism, we have imagined four sensory territories — four ways of finding each other again, of surprising each other, of letting pleasure flow between your bodies. Choose according to your desires, your curiosities, your configurations; there is no wrong choice, only the one that feels like you. 1. Couples' vibrator: a vibration that flows between you Imagine: you are entwined, skin against skin, and something vibrates between you — not an external object intruding upon your intimacy, but an extension of your gestures, an amplified caress that creates a current running through both bodies. The couples' vibrator nestles where your bodies meet — it can be worn during penetration, adding continuous clitoral stimulation that transforms every movement into a double sensation, or it can be used in foreplay, held by one, felt by the other, creating a gentle power play where pleasure flows, is given, is shared like a silent conversation. What it offers: Simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and G-spot during penetration Vibrations felt by the penetrating partner too, creating a truly shared experience The possibility of varying angles, pressures, and rhythms according to your moods and discoveries A constant reminder that pleasure is never solitary, even in the most intimate fusion This sex toy is particularly well suited to couples who practise penis-vulva penetration, but also to those who use a strap-on, as the vibration then becomes a universal language of pleasure, independent of anatomy. Discover our selection of couples' vibrators 2. Vibrating egg & remote control: the game of surprise What if pleasure began long before the bedroom — what if anticipation itself became the primary erotic act? The vibrating egg, discreet and elegant, slips inside or rests against the clitoris, and is controlled remotely via a handset or an app that transforms your smartphone into an instrument of pleasure. Your partner becomes the conductor of your sensations, even from a few metres away, and suddenly everyday life takes on a tinge of latent eroticism. Picture the scene: you are dining at a restaurant, seemingly composed, the conversation drifting over polite topics, yet beneath the table your partner triggers an unexpected vibration and you must keep your composure, maintain your smile, while waves of pleasure rise inexorably. It is a consensual power play, a shared secret that electrifies the ordinary — transforming the car ride home into an interminable prelude where the waiting itself becomes erotic, almost unbearable. What it offers: A consensual power and control play that awakens the dynamics of desire The possibility of being stimulated in public (always discreetly) for those who love the thrill of a secret An anticipation that multiplies desire long before the moment arrives, like a long musical prelude Surprise as a central erotic element, because you no longer control when or how pleasure arrives Perfect for all couples seeking a little spice, the unexpected, a game that escapes the confines of the bedroom and seeps into the rest of life — like a musical note that lingers long after the piece has ended. Explore our collection of vibrating eggs 3. Vibrating cockring: amplified pleasure, extended duration There are objects that seem innocuous at first glance, almost minimalist, and yet radically transform the experience. The cockring belongs to this category: a silicone ring placed at the base of the penis or a dildo when it comes to a vibrating ring, and it changes everything. First, it prolongs erection by limiting blood flow, creating a heightened sensation of fullness and firmness. Then, if you have opted for a vibrating ring, it vibrates, and this vibration is transmitted with every movement, every thrust, stimulating the clitoris or the perineum depending on the configuration. Pleasure ceases to be linear — it becomes circular, a loop where each sensation calls forth another. What is beautiful about the vibrating ring is that it never steals the show — it almost effaces itself, yet its presence is felt everywhere, like a bass line in a jazz piece that doesn't demand attention but sets the rhythm for everything else. It is a reminder that sometimes the most discreet details create the most intense experiences. What it offers: Clitoral stimulation during penetration, without having to change position or bring an extra hand into the equation A longer-lasting erection, allowing pleasure to be stretched out rather than rushing towards orgasm Vibrations felt by both partners, creating a sensation of sensory synchronisation An ease of use that makes it accessible even for those who are just discovering the world of sex toys Ideal for couples who want to add a layer of sensation without upending their habits — simply enriching them, deepening them, making them last a little longer, the way you stretch out a song you love so it doesn't end too soon. Discover our selection of cockrings 4. Harness — strap-ons: for couples who reinvent penetration There are couples who wish not merely to add something to their sexuality, but to reinvent it from within — to explore what happens when penetration no longer depends on an erection, when power flows differently between bodies, when one can choose the shape, the size, the texture of what penetrates or is penetrated. The strap-on and the harness are not mere accessories — they are doorways into other erotic imaginaries, other sensations, other ways of inhabiting desire, power, vulnerability. Whether you are two women, two men, a heterosexual couple reversing roles, or a queer couple that refuses to be boxed in, these products open up infinite possibilities. In the 1970s, lesbian feminists such as Joan Nestle (founder of the Lesbian Herstory Archives) were already documenting how women couples were reinventing penetration and gender roles: desire between women did not have to mimic heterosexuality, penetration was not reserved for bodies with a penis, butch/fem roles were not imitations but creations in their own right. Today, these explorations continue in your bedrooms, your role plays, your nights when you become exactly who you wish to be. Between women — people with a vulva: penetration, power, fluidity For lesbian, sapphic, or vulva-to-vulva couples, the strap-on is far more than a substitute — it is an object of erotic power that allows one to embody an active, dominant energy, or simply another way of loving. Wearing a harness means feeling the weight of the dildo against your pubic bone, anticipating the pleasure you are about to give, taking the reins in a way that has nothing to do with masculinity and everything to do with your own desire to give, to penetrate, to bring pleasure. Being penetrated by a woman or a person with a vulva using a strap-on is a radically different experience: she looks you in the eyes, she adjusts her movements to your responses, she is entirely present to your pleasure.  The possible configurations: Butch/fem: one embodies a powerful feminine masculinity, the other surrenders Switch: you alternate roles according to desire Strap-on with double stimulation: with an internal dildo for the person wearing the harness Strapless strap-on: held by vaginal contraction, no harness, skin against skin Pegging: when heterosexual couples reverse roles Pegging (anal penetration performed by a woman on her male partner or person with a penis) is an exploration increasingly embraced by heterosexual couples who refuse rigid gendered scripts. For the man or person with a penis who receives, it means discovering the prostate (the P-spot, the equivalent of the G-spot) — surrendering to a new vulnerability, releasing the scripts of masculinity. Prostatic orgasms are described as more intense, longer, more "full body". For the woman or person with a vulva who penetrates, it means embodying an unfamiliar erotic power, controlling the rhythm, watching their partner surrender. It is also a profoundly egalitarian act: each partner now knows what it feels like both to penetrate AND to be penetrated. Penetration without erection: freedom for all people with a penis For any person with a penis (cis man, trans man, non-binary person — regardless), the strap-on offers a radical freedom: to penetrate without needing an erection, without depending on performance, without stress. Whether due to stress, fatigue, medication, gender dysphoria, or simply the desire to explore differently, the harness allows you to maintain an active penetrative sex life without physiological constraints. The possibilities: Vaginal or anal penetration of your partner (woman, man, non-binary person) with the dildo of your choice Double penetration: wearing a harness and using your own penis (erect or not) to penetrate two orifices simultaneously, or to create an extreme sensation of "fullness" Choosing the shape and size: realistic, colourful, textured, curved for the G-spot or prostate — whatever the moment calls for Alternating roles: today you penetrate with the harness, tomorrow it is you who is penetrated It is equally precious for trans men or transmasculine persons who wish to penetrate with a phallus they have chosen — one that resembles them, that embodies their masculinity. How to give a sex toy on Valentine's Day (without it being awkward) Giving a sex toy, even within an established relationship, can provoke a small apprehension: what if the other thinks I'm criticising our sex life, what if it comes across as a veiled reproach, what if it's too direct, not romantic enough? Rest assured — everything lies in the way you present the gift, in the intention you bring to it, in the words that accompany it. Create the context before revealing the gift Don't produce your sex toy between courses like a surprise utterly disconnected from the moment — prepare the ground in advance, create an atmosphere conducive to intimacy and curiosity. Begin with a candlelit dinner if you love the revisited classics, or a Netflix evening in pyjamas if that suits you better; what matters is not the setting but the state of mind: relaxed, complicit, open. You can drop a few hints into conversation, mention an article you have read on the subject, ask your partner what they think about sex toys in general — feeling things out without pushing. Some couples even prefer to discuss it openly beforehand: I'd love for us to try something new for Valentine's Day — would you be up for it? This transparency can be extraordinarily alluring, because it shows that you take the other's desire seriously, that you wish to impose nothing but share everything. Accompany your gift with a message that sets the intention A sex toy given without context can be misread, but a sex toy accompanied by a few sincere words becomes an erotic declaration of love. Slip a little note inside the wrapping — something simple and true that explains your gesture, for example: "I wanted us to rediscover each other, to keep our pleasure alive and curious. This gift is an invitation: to play, to explore, to surprise each other. No pressure — simply the pleasure of seeing where it takes us." Or, if you are in a more poetic mood, quote Marguerite Duras, who wrote in The Lover: "Very early in my life it was too late." And add: "We still have time. Time to try everything, to feel everything, to live everything together." Words set down on paper carry something precious and solemn — they show that you have taken the time to choose your words, that this gift is not a joke but a genuine invitation to renewed intimacy. Suggest discovering it together, without rushing Once the gift has been unwrapped, don't rush off to the bedroom as though you had a schedule to keep — let the object rest between you, observe it together, read the instructions if needed (yes, even sex toys come with user guides, and it's often quite amusing), talk about what you imagine doing with it, what intrigues you, what excites you about the idea of trying it. You can even decide not to use it that same evening — let the anticipation build over a few days, transforming the wait into an erotic prelude. Send each other messages during the day: I've been thinking about our new toy all morning, I can't wait for us to try it this weekend. Anticipation, when shared, multiplies desire and transforms the object into a promise. If your partner seems hesitant, don't force anything Not all bodies are ready at the same moment, not all curiosities awaken at the same pace, and that is perfectly normal. If your partner seems reserved about the sex toy, don't take it as a personal rejection — consider instead that the moment may not yet have come, that the idea needs to ripen gently. Simply suggest placing the object in a drawer — accessible but not imposed — and let time do its work. Often, it is the other person who will come back to you a few weeks later saying: actually, I'd quite like us to try, because the idea will have quietly made its way, without pressure. Desire cannot be commanded — it is tamed, and sometimes giving a sex toy is planting a seed whose fruit will appear much later, when you least expect it, and that is perfectly fine. This Valentine's Day, give yourselves the pleasure of rediscovering each other Valentine's Day need not be a commercial, predictable celebration — it can become an occasion to honour what truly unites you: shared desire, intimate closeness, the will to nurture your bond rather than let it drift to sleep under the weight of habit and passing years. A sex toy is never merely an object — it is an intention placed between you, a way of saying to the other: you matter to me, our pleasure matters to me, what we are building together deserves our time, our attention, our imagination, even when routine would have us believe everything is already written. In 1969, Woodstock celebrated free love and the possibility of reinventing the rules — May '68 had already cried out that pleasure should never be constrained, Serge and Jane scandalised the whole of France by sighing in a recording studio. Today, we are the heirs of that freedom, the one that refuses to let desire wither like cut roses. So this year, give yourself something other than flowers that won't last the week — give yourself a night you'll still remember in ten years, give yourself the chance to rediscover each other, to laugh together over an incomprehensible instruction manual, to shiver together under new sensations, to come together while looking into each other's eyes. Give yourselves love in its most vivid form: curious, bold, ever-renewed, refusing resignation, embracing exploration as a matter of course. Discover our Valentine's Day selection and let yourselves be inspired by what your bodies can still discover together. FAQ: Your questions about couples' sex toys for Valentine's Day [faq]

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