Guide

The idea of introducing sex toys into your relationship has been going around in your head for several weeks, perhaps even several months. You see it as an opportunity to invigorate your intimacy, break the routine, explore new experiences… There is just one shadow on the picture: you do not dare talk to your partner about it. Not because they are closed-minded, but because you are afraid of awakening insecurities, of having this initiative misinterpreted. This is quite common. And indeed, if you want to introduce a sex toy as a couple, there is a good (and a not-so-good) way to bring the subject up.  Here is a guide to help you think this idea through and bring it up with your partner in the best possible way.  Sex toys as a couple: what reservations might your partner have?  What if your partner felt in competition with the sex toy?  This is one of the objections that comes up regularly when one partner wishes to introduce sex toys into the relationship: "I'm not enough for you," "you need more," "you're not fulfilled with me and you didn't dare tell me"… Your partner interprets your request as an implicit message: they think you are not satisfied in your intimate life. As we mentioned earlier, this is a common scenario: your partner fears that the object will give you sensations that they cannot.  It is therefore essential to choose the right moment to bring up sex toys as a couple and put forward the right arguments (we explain a little further down how to do this). Even if it seems obvious to you, it is absolutely essential to put the idea of shared pleasure into words. The sex toy is merely a tool to guide you both toward new sensations. You can enjoy it together, discover things as a couple, without competing with the toy. The sex toy replaces no one — it is purely "a playful and entirely erotic instrument" as psychoanalyst and sexologist Valentina Bracciale likes to remind us. Rekindling performance anxiety Performance anxiety is very common within relationships. While it tends to manifest more acutely in men, women are not immune.  In a few words, performance anxiety is the fear of failure transposed onto sexuality. You are afraid of not being enough, of not satisfying your partner, of not being sufficient or of being too much… Sexual standards are rooted in pornography: we are talking not only about performance but also about very specific physical codes associated with beauty and desirability. You may not even realize it, but this content, consumed without critical awareness, can fuel your sexual anxiety.  Try to free yourself from it and return to your own reality, reinventing the codes of an intimacy that truly fulfils you both, far from the pressure of orgasm at any cost. Introducing a sex toy into your relationship is precisely the opportunity to rethink your sexuality — an invitation to do things differently. Besides, you don't have to start with a penetrative model. Wand sex toys (massagers) are perfect for exploring your partner's erogenous zones, gently and at your own pace. When you are both ready, you can explore other models to go even further! Sex toys as a couple: what if it were simply a fear of the unknown?  Sometimes, the hesitation is not related to performance or jealousy. It simply comes down to… the unknown. It is human. As soon as something steps outside the usual frame, the mind imagines a thousand scenarios: What if I don't know how to use it? What if it feels strange? What if I hurt someone? What if we are disappointed? Sex toys still carry a somewhat mysterious image, almost intimidating. We picture them as technical, complicated, reserved for the initiated. In reality, they are primarily designed to be intuitive and playful. What matters, when bringing up the subject with your partner, is precisely defusing this pressure. This is not a goal to be achieved, let alone a performance to succeed at. No one is expecting anything. There is no result to obtain. You can simply present the idea as a shared curiosity. A way of saying: "I don't know this world very well either, but I would love for us to discover it together." This approach changes everything. It transforms the object into shared exploratory territory, rather than an accessory loaded with expectations. Looking for your first sex toy can actually become an experience in itself. Browsing through the different categories, comparing models, discussing what intrigues or attracts you. All of this is already part of the game. And if you would like some reassurance, there are many educational resources available today: user reviews, detailed product descriptions, the specialist blogs, the podcasts on sexuality, FAQs that answer the most frequently asked questions. There is no obligation to know everything right away. Discovery is part of the pleasure. The keys to a successful conversation when bringing up the subject of sex toys  Choosing the right moment  The moment you choose to bring up the subject matters greatly. A conversation about intimacy requires a minimum of emotional availability. If one of you is tired, stressed or preoccupied, there is a good chance the message will not land as you had hoped. Ideally, choose a calm moment when you are both relaxed. A quiet evening at home, a moment of conversation after dinner, a walk where the discussion comes naturally. Some situations are, on the other hand, less favourable: just after sex, just after an argument, in a moment of vulnerability or tension, in a very intense seduction phase. Why? Because the conversation could be misinterpreted. After sex, your partner might think that something was not satisfying. After an argument, the conversation could become defensive. The best approach is a neutral moment, when you simply feel like having a conversation. The idea is not to turn it into a grand solemn speech, but to open a natural conversation. An idea slipped into the discussion, a shared curiosity, a reflection on sexuality. Like many topics within a relationship, it is often a question of timing. Highlighting the shared benefits of sex toys as a couple  When you raise the idea of a sex toy as a couple, it is essential to emphasize that this is not a personal project. This is not something you want for yourself. It is something you would like to explore together. Simply explain what draws you to this idea. Perhaps the desire to discover new sensations, to add a spark to your intimacy, to step gently outside your routine. Perhaps also curiosity about a world you still know relatively little about. Your partner knows you. They know how you work. If you explain your intentions with sincerity, it will be much easier for your other half to understand what you have in mind. All the more so since sex toys are now widely mainstream. A study conducted by IFOP indicates, for example, that 69% of French people who have already used a sex toy as a couple feel that it had a positive impact on their sexual pleasure. This figure simply serves as a reminder: this is not a marginal or selfish endeavour. For many couples, it is simply a new way of nurturing their intimacy. Respecting your partner's pace and concerns  A successful conversation is never a monologue. When you broach this subject, it is essential to give your partner space to express themselves. Their questions, their doubts, their reactions are all part of the process. Perhaps the conversation will go exactly as you imagined, or perhaps it will take an unexpected turn. Your partner might be curious, enthusiastic, surprised, or on the contrary a little hesitant at first. All of this is perfectly normal. What matters is listening without trying to convince at all costs. The goal is not to win a debate but to open a dialogue. It is also possible that your partner may not know how to respond right away. Some ideas simply need time to find their way. Sometimes the conversation stops there… and comes back a few days or weeks later. And that is often how discussions around intimacy evolve within a relationship. In any case, avoid putting on pressure. Do not set deadlines, do not constantly bring the subject back up. Simply let the idea exist. Your partner could very well come back to you later with curiosity. Take it step by step, together  If your partner is open to the idea, there is no need to rush things. One of the worst approaches would be to arrive at the conversation with a sex toy already purchased, placed on the table as though it were a foregone conclusion. You can, for example, browse a specialist website together, discover the different categories, discuss what intrigues or attracts you. Some models might make you smile, others will spark genuine curiosity. And that is perfectly fine. It is also possible that your partner would prefer to start gently. For example: try a sex toy on yourself first then share your experience with your partner to help them imagine it for themselves, try a simple accessory like a vibrating cockring (penis ring), easy to use, What matters most is respecting your shared pace. Sometimes, couples begin with softer products: a sensory lubricant, a massage oil, body paint… These are not strictly speaking sex toys, but these intimate cosmetics already allow you to step gently outside your habits. Using a sex toy as a couple: the key to shared pleasure  Deepening the bond within the relationship  Discovering a sex toy together can become a truly shared experience as a couple. You are exploring new territory, hand in hand. You are learning to communicate differently, to express what pleases you, what intrigues you, what makes you laugh as well. Because yes, exploration can be fun, sometimes a little clumsy, often surprising. And that is precisely what creates shared memories. The sex toy then becomes a kind of little shared secret. Your codes, your rules, your own way of playing with intimacy. Some couples' sex toys have actually been designed with this spirit of complicity in mind. For example, remote-controlled objects such as vibrating eggs which allow one partner to control the other's vibrations, sometimes in unexpected situations. This dynamic is built on trust. You are literally letting the other take control of your pleasure. And this trust, when experienced within a safe and complicit space, deeply strengthens the bond between partners. Your intimacy becomes a space for experimentation that belongs only to you. Exploring new sensations with couples' sex toys Sex toys are also your gateway to new sensations.  The human body is incredibly sensitive. Yet, in the routine of daily life, you may tend to repeat the same gestures, the same rhythms, the same positions. Sex toys simply allow you to break free from these automatisms. At first, you can keep things very gentle: exploring certain erogenous zones, testing different intensities, playing with rhythms. Then, with time and trust, some couples choose to go a little further. Some accessories allow you, for example, to stimulate both partners at the same time, to explore new areas of pleasure or to discover entirely new sensations. For many couples who take the plunge, the goal is not to radically transform their sex life. It is more about breaking the routine. Sex toys bring a playful dimension, almost exploratory, to moments of intimacy. As medical journalist Rica Étienne highlights, couples who successfully integrate these objects into their relationship generally do so through a great quality of mutual listening. What matters is not the object itself, but the way partners communicate around pleasure. And sometimes, this exploration opens the door to new desires: discovering simultaneous sensations, exploring other areas of the body, or simply prolonging moments of pleasure. In some cases, couples' vibrators allow, for example, different stimulations to be combined, so that each partner can enjoy the experience at the same moment. Once again, there is no obligation to go in this direction. Every couple writes their own story. At heart, introducing a sex toy into your relationship is not a revolution. It is more of an invitation to speak more freely about your desire, to be curious about one another, to keep exploring even after years together. And perhaps the real secret is not the object itself, but the dialogue it opens between you.   

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"My love, our bodies must remember / all the nights we have shared together"Louis Aragon, Il n'y a pas d'amour heureux (sung by Ferré) Valentine's Day approaches with its procession of red roses, heart-shaped chocolates and predictable candlelit dinners — but what if this year you chose a different path, one that leads toward true intimacy, the kind that reinvents itself, whispers itself, discovers itself in the fold of the sheets and the breathless sighs of shared nights? Giving a sex toy for Valentine's Day is not simply adding an object to your collection — it is opening a door, the door of curiosity, of play, of renewed intimacy, it is saying to the other: I want us to explore ourselves, differently, I want our desire to stay alive, to transform, to surprise. "In the year 1969, Serge Gainsbourg whispered words to Jane Birkin that caused scandal and inspired dreams all at once — the sexual revolution demanded it, people finally dared to say that pleasure was not shameful, that it could be shared, invented, celebrated. Today, we are the heirs of that freedom — the one that refuses to let desire fall asleep under the weight of routine or convention." Whether you have been together for six months or fifteen years, whether you form a heterosexual, queer, trans, polyamorous couple or simply one that defies labels, a sex toy can become the ritual that makes the heart beat differently — a silent language, a kept promise: never to take shared pleasure for granted. At 1969, we believe that love is nourished by attention, by presence, and sometimes by a gentle technological nudge to awaken the senses. Here is why and how a sex toy can transform your Valentine's Day into an intimate and unforgettable celebration. Why give a sex toy for Valentine's Day? Because love reinvents itself The early days are electric: every caress is a discovery, every kiss uncharted territory — then time passes and what was fire becomes tenderness, sometimes routine. This is not inevitable — it is an invitation, to reinvent your intimate rituals the way you change a record on a turntable, to rediscover the thrill of the first groove. A sex toy is an opportunity to venture off the beaten path, to offer a new game, an unfamiliar sensation, a different way of touching. It is not replacing what already exists — it is enriching it, saying: our desire deserves our care, our attention, our willingness to let it grow like a rare plant that asks to be tended. Valentine's Day then becomes the perfect pretext to place this object between the two of you, like a gentle proposal: what if we tried, what if we let ourselves be surprised by what our bodies can still discover together? Because it is an intimate conversation There are desires we keep to ourselves, curiosities we dare not voice, fantasies that remain tucked in the shadows out of modesty, fear of judgment, or simply a lack of words. Anaïs Nin wrote in her diary: "We do not grow absolutely, chronologically. We grow sometimes in one dimension, and not in another; unevenly." (The Diary of Anaïs Nin). Desire, too, grows unevenly, unpredictably, sometimes in silence. Giving a sex toy is opening a dialogue without having to say everything — it is offering a neutral playground where desires can be expressed without pressure. The sex toy becomes a mediator: it speaks for you, suggests for you, explores for you, and often it is in discovering it together that you begin to talk, to say what you enjoy, what intrigues you, what you would like to try. Complicity is woven in these exchanges — whispered in the intimacy of a bedroom or slipped between nervous bursts of laughter, like a confidence shared in the dim light of a late evening. Because shared pleasure strengthens the bond Science confirms it: sharing sexual experiences releases oxytocin, the hormone nicknamed "the attachment hormone" — but beyond neurotransmitters, there is something simpler, more visceral. Coming together is creating a shared memory, an imprint that remains engraved in the body as much as in the mind. A couple's sex toy is a pleasure that flows like an electric current, a vibration that runs through both bodies, a rhythm discovered together. It is the experience of being in sync, of looking into each other's eyes as pleasure rises, of laughing when it doesn't quite work at first, of trying again until it becomes second nature — like a choreography learned together, without a written score. These moments engrave themselves in sensory memory — they become your secret rituals, your intimate codes, your warm recollections, and that is exactly what love needs to endure: unique moments, repeated, renewed, always a little different. Because Valentine's Day can be something other than a cliché Roses, chocolates, gift cards — year after year, the same script writes itself. But what if you wrote your own this time, with your own words, your own gestures, your own definition of what it means to celebrate love? Valentine's Day, in its 1969 version, is not the celebration of the ideal couple as imagined by women's magazines or Hollywood films — it is the celebration of your couple, of what makes you unique, of what makes you tremble, literally. It is the legacy of May '68 whispering "pleasure without limits", the freedom to refuse injunctions, norms, and prefabricated expectations. Giving a sex toy is saying: our love doesn't fit into boxes, our intimacy deserves better than a standardized dinner, our desire is worth the time, the attention, the imagination we devote to it. It is choosing authenticity over conformity, the thrill over routine, exploration over mechanical repetition. Our Valentine's Day selection: 4 worlds of shared pleasure Rather than an exhaustive list of products resembling an erotic IKEA catalogue, we have imagined four sensory territories — four ways of finding each other, surprising each other, letting pleasure flow between your bodies. Choose according to your desires, your curiosities, your configurations — there is no wrong choice, only the one that feels like you. 1. Couple vibrator: a vibration that flows between you Imagine: you are entwined, skin against skin, and something vibrates between you — not an external object intruding on your intimacy, but an extension of your gestures, an amplified caress that creates a current running through both bodies. The couple vibrator nestles where your anatomies meet — it can be worn during penetration, adding continuous clitoral stimulation and transforming every movement into a double sensation, or used during foreplay, held by one partner and felt by the other, creating a gentle power play where pleasure flows, is given, is shared like a silent conversation. What it brings: Simultaneous stimulation of the clitoris and G-spot during penetration Vibrations felt by the penetrating partner too, creating a truly shared experience The possibility of varying angles, pressures, and rhythms according to your moods and discoveries A constant reminder that pleasure is never solitary, even in the most intimate fusion This sex toy is particularly suited to couples who practice penis-vulva penetration, but also to those who use a strap-on, because vibration then becomes a universal language of pleasure, independent of anatomy. Discover our selection of couple vibrators 2. Vibrating egg & remote control: the game of surprise What if pleasure began long before the bedroom, if anticipation itself became the primary erotic act? The vibrating egg, discreet and elegant, slips inside or rests against the clitoris, and is controlled remotely via a remote control or an app that turns your smartphone into an instrument of pleasure. Your partner becomes the conductor of your sensations, even from a few metres away, and suddenly everyday life takes on a tinge of latent eroticism. Picture the scene: you are dining at a restaurant, apparently composed, conversation flowing on ordinary topics — but beneath the table, your partner triggers an unexpected vibration and you must hold your composure, maintain your smile, while waves of pleasure rise inexorably. It is a consensual power play, a shared secret that electrifies the ordinary, that transforms the car ride home into an interminable prelude where the waiting itself becomes erotic, almost unbearable. What it brings: A consensual power and control game that reawakens the dynamics of desire The possibility of being stimulated in public (always discreetly) for those who love the thrill of a secret An anticipation that multiplies desire long before the moment itself, like a long musical prelude Surprise as a central erotic element, because you no longer control when or how pleasure arrives Perfect for all couples seeking excitement, the unexpected, a game that spills out beyond the bedroom walls and seeps into the rest of life, like a musical note that lingers long after the piece has ended. Explore our collection of vibrating eggs 3. Vibrating cockring: amplified pleasure, prolonged intimacy There are objects that seem unremarkable at first glance, almost minimalist, and yet radically transform the experience. The cockring belongs to this category: a silicone ring placed at the base of the penis or a dildo when it comes to a vibrating ring, and it changes everything. First, it prolongs erection by restricting blood flow, creating a sensation of heightened fullness and firmness. Then, if you have chosen a vibrating ring, it vibrates, and that vibration is transmitted with every movement, every thrust, stimulating the clitoris or perineum depending on the configuration. Pleasure ceases to be linear — it becomes circular, a loop where each sensation calls forth another. What is beautiful about the vibrating ring is that it doesn't steal the spotlight — it almost effaces itself, yet its presence is felt everywhere, like a bass line in a jazz piece that doesn't draw attention but sets the rhythm for everything else. It reminds us that sometimes it is the most discreet details that create the most intense experiences. What it brings: Clitoral stimulation during penetration, without having to change position or add a hand into the equation A longer-lasting erection, allowing pleasure to be stretched out in time rather than rushing toward orgasm Vibrations felt by both partners, creating a sensation of sensory synchrony An ease of use that makes it accessible even for those just discovering the world of sex toys Ideal for couples who want to add a layer of sensation without upending their habits — simply enrich them, deepen them, let them linger a little longer, the way you stretch out a song you love so it doesn't end too soon. Discover our selection of cockrings 4. Harness - strap-ons: for couples reinventing penetration There are couples who don't just want to add something to their sexuality, but to reinvent it from within — to explore what happens when penetration no longer depends on an erection, when power flows differently between bodies, when you can choose the shape, the size, the texture of what enters you or enters the other. The strap-on and the harness are not mere accessories — they are gateways into other erotic imaginaries, other sensations, other ways of inhabiting desire, power, and vulnerability. Whether you are two women, two men, a heterosexual couple reversing roles, or a queer couple who refuses labels, these pieces open up infinite possibilities. In the 1970s, lesbian feminists such as Joan Nestle (founder of the Lesbian Herstory Archives) were already documenting how female couples were reinventing penetration and gender roles: desire between women did not have to imitate heterosexuality, penetration was not reserved for bodies with penises, butch/fem roles were not imitations but creations in their own right. Today, these explorations continue in your bedrooms, your role play, your nights when you become exactly who you want to be. Between women — vulva owners: penetration, power, fluidity For lesbian, sapphic couples or those between vulva owners, the strap-on is far more than a substitute — it is an object of erotic power that allows one to embody an active, dominant energy, or simply another way of loving. Wearing a harness means feeling the weight of the dildo against your pubic bone, anticipating the pleasure you are about to give, taking the lead in a way that has nothing to do with masculinity and everything to do with your own desire to give, to penetrate, to bring pleasure. Being penetrated by a woman or a vulva owner with a strap-on is a radically different experience: she looks into your eyes, adjusts her movements to your reactions, is entirely present to your pleasure.  Possible configurations: Butch/fem: one embodies a powerful feminine masculinity, the other surrenders Switch: you alternate roles according to desire Strap-on double stimulation: with an internal dildo for the one wearing the harness Strapless strap-on: held in place by vaginal contraction, no harness, skin against skin Pegging: when heterosexual couples reverse roles Pegging (anal penetration performed by a woman on her male partner or person with a penis) is an exploration increasingly embraced by heterosexual couples who refuse rigid gendered scripts. For the man or person with a penis who receives, it means discovering the prostate (the P-spot, the equivalent of the G-spot), opening oneself to a new vulnerability, releasing the weight of virility's expectations. Prostatic orgasms are described as more intense, longer, more "full body". For the woman or vulva owner who penetrates, it means embodying an unfamiliar erotic power, controlling the rhythm, watching their partner surrender. It is also a profoundly egalitarian act: each person now knows what it feels like to penetrate AND to be penetrated. Penetrating without an erection: freedom for all people with a penis For anyone with a penis (cis man, trans man, non-binary person — it doesn't matter), the strap-on offers a radical freedom: to penetrate without needing an erection, without depending on performance, without stress. Whether due to stress, fatigue, medication, gender dysphoria, or simply the desire to explore differently, a harness allows you to maintain an active penetrative intimate life without physiological constraints. The possibilities: Vaginal or anal penetration of your partner (woman, man, non-binary person) with the dildo of your choice Double penetration: wearing a harness while using your own penis (erect or not) to penetrate two openings simultaneously, or creating a sensation of extreme "fullness" Choosing the shape and size: realistic, colourful, textured, curved for the G-spot or prostate dildo, according to the mood of the moment Alternating roles: today you penetrate with the harness, tomorrow it is you who is penetrated It is also precious for trans men or transmasculine people who wish to penetrate with a phallus of their choosing — one that resembles them, that embodies their masculinity. How to give a sex toy for Valentine's Day (without making it awkward) Giving a sex toy, even within an established couple, can stir a little apprehension: what if the other thinks I'm criticizing our sex life, what if it comes across as a veiled reproach, what if it's too direct, not romantic enough? Rest assured — everything lies in the way you present the gift, in the intention you put into it, in the words that accompany it. Create the right context before revealing the gift Don't produce your sex toy between courses like a surprise completely disconnected from the moment — prepare the ground beforehand, create an atmosphere conducive to intimacy and curiosity. Begin with a candlelit dinner if you love the revisited classics, or a Netflix evening in pyjamas if that's more your style — what matters is not the setting but the state of mind: relaxed, complicit, open. You can slip a few allusions into conversation, mention an article you read on the subject, ask your partner what they think of sex toys in general — test the waters without forcing anything. Some couples even prefer to discuss it openly beforehand: I'd like us to try something new for Valentine's Day, would you be up for it? This transparency can be extremely alluring, because it shows that you take the other's desire seriously, that you want to share everything, not impose anything. Accompany your gift with a message that sets the intention A sex toy given without context can be misinterpreted, but a sex toy accompanied by a few sincere words becomes a declaration of erotic love. Slip a small note into the wrapping — something simple and true that explains your gesture, for example: "I wanted us to rediscover each other, to keep our pleasure as alive and curious as ever. This gift is an invitation: to play, to explore, to surprise each other. No pressure — just for the pleasure of seeing where it takes us." Or, if you are feeling more poetic, quote Marguerite Duras who wrote in The Lover: "Very early in my life it was too late." And add: "We still have time. Time to try everything, to feel everything, to live everything together." Words set down on paper carry something precious, something solemn — they show that you took the time to choose your words, that this gift is not a joke but a genuine proposal for renewed intimacy. Invite them to discover it together, without rushing Once the gift is unwrapped, don't rush toward the bedroom as if you had a schedule to keep — let the object rest between you, look at it together, read the instructions if needed (yes, even sex toys come with user guides, and it's often quite amusing), talk about what you imagine doing with it, what intrigues you, what excites you at the thought of trying. You can even decide not to use it that same evening — let the anticipation build for a few days, turning the wait into an erotic prelude. Send each other messages throughout the day: I've been thinking about our new toy all morning, I can't wait for us to try it this weekend. Anticipation, when shared, multiplies desire and transforms the object into a promise. If your partner seems hesitant, don't push Not all bodies are ready at the same moment, not all curiosities awaken at the same pace, and that is perfectly normal. If your partner seems reserved about the sex toy, don't take it as a personal rejection — consider instead that the moment may not have arrived yet, that the idea needs to ripen gently. Simply suggest tucking the object away in a drawer, accessible but never imposed, and let time do its work. Often, it is the other who will come back to you a few weeks later saying: actually, I think I'd like to try, because the idea will have quietly made its way, without pressure. Desire cannot be commanded — it is tamed, and sometimes giving a sex toy is planting a seed whose fruits will appear much later, when you least expect it, and that is perfectly fine. This Valentine's Day, give yourselves the pleasure of rediscovering each other Valentine's Day doesn't need to be a commercial, predictable celebration — it can become an occasion to honor what truly unites you: shared desire, intimate complicity, the will to nurture your bond rather than let it drift to sleep under the weight of habit and passing years. A sex toy is never just an object — it is an intention, a way of saying to the other: you matter to me, our pleasure matters to me, what we build together deserves time, attention, imagination, even when routine would have us believe everything is already written. In 1969, Woodstock celebrated free love and the possibility of reinventing the rules — May '68 had already proclaimed that pleasure should never be restrained, Serge and Jane shocked all of France by sighing in a recording studio. Today, we are the heirs of that freedom — the one that refuses to let desire wither like cut roses. So this year, give yourself something other than flowers that won't last the week — give yourself a night you'll still remember ten years from now, give yourself the chance to rediscover each other, to laugh together over an incomprehensible instruction manual, to shiver together beneath new sensations, to surrender together while looking into each other's eyes. Give yourselves love in its most alive form: curious, bold, forever renewed, refusing resignation, embracing exploration as a matter of course. Discover our Valentine's Day selection and let yourselves be inspired by what your bodies can still discover together. 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